Getting your heart broken opens your eyes to the harsher side of life: the reality that life and love can never be as perfect as planned. No matter how much you deny the current state you are in, life will test you to grow beyond your current self. You will eventually realize that not everything is in your control.
Between your old self and your new one, the better and improved you obviously represents the latter. Because your heart is already broken, it cannot make you less strong. In fact, it makes you wiser and tougher, for a broken heart cannot be shattered to broken bits anymore.
Accept Reality
To move on and overcome a broken heart, the first step to do is to embrace and accept the reality of it all. Never waste more time blaming yourself or the other over what could have been done to stop the breakup. Grow up and accept that it already had been done for and what is left is to move on and live life for the better. You should rather erase good memories than continue remembering hurtful ones. Divert your attention into more beautiful things and discourage your self from heating up the embers of hatred.
Make Peace
Dwell not in the past for it has already been lived with. Focus your attention into pacifying your senses into which you were meant to be: a perfect individual who loves and values life. This is a crucial part in moving on as it is pivotal in letting go of unnecessary loads of hatred and anger. Shake off the stresses and make peace not only with your ex-boyfriend/ex girlfriend but also with your self. Only then can you learn the art of totally moving on and getting over a broken heart.
You Have a Right to be Happy
Exercise the right to give due happiness to your self. You deserve to see the wonderful works of God and not the darker side of things. Meet out with your friends and spend time to enjoy and laugh your problems away. There are totally a bunch of surprises that come along a blissful spirit that you will become. Even a new acquaintance is not strange enough!
Never Say Never
When you have finally moved on, you will have to think again how it feels to be loved. You might even be a stranger to feeling sad over a breakup in this time. Do not limit your self from getting to know other people. Open your self to new romance and new dates. Come hell or high water but never say never!
One Chapter is Closed, Another Will Begin
You are your own life’s author. No one else can forge it for you. And unlike the fairy tales we have loved to hear our mothers tell us, life never assures a happy ending. Thus, you must live a life of mystery: a life that is unpredictable and full of excitement. Live it as a big novel and not as a short story. Never dwell on a page for so long. Keep on turning to a new leaf. What surprises await the next chapters of your life’s book? What new adventures lie within the corners of your story? Broaden your mind into wider horizons and reject not the possibilities of another chance to love. Give your self a chance to once again live a happy life with someone. Who knows “Prince Charming” comes at the very end of the page?
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