Whether you are considering breaking up with your significant other or you are trying to heal from one, you could probably use some inspiration or encouragement. The good news is that millions of other people have been in exactly the same situation, and many of them have been kind enough to provide some useful words of wisdom.
- “The best way to mend a broken heart is time and girlfriends.” This sage advice may have come from an unlikely source, Gwyneth Paltrow, but it is true. You may not feel like the pain will ever go away, but over time, it will subside. And the more you share with those who care for and love you, the quicker it will go.
- “A heartbreak is a blessing from God. It’s just his way of letting you realize he saved you from the wrong one.” You may feel a lot of anger that you are missing out on the one true love of your life, but you should approach your situation with some realism. The person that just left is just as easily replaced with someone much more compatible.
- “Let your tears come. Let them water your soul.” This touching quote is good advice. Grieving isn’t something to be afraid of. It will help you get over the heartbreak if you can find its expression in tears or whatever way best suits you. Once the grief has passed, you will find that you are better person for what you just experienced.
- “If we must part forever,Give me but one kind word to think upon, And please myself with, while my heart’s breaking.” We all want desperately to walk away from a failed relationship knowing that there is still some hope. A few kind words can make that breakup bearable for the rejected party, so be charitable when you finally say goodbye.
- “There are things that we don’t want to happen but have to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn, and people we can’t live without but have to let go.” If anything quite encapsulates the harsh reality of a breakup, it is this wonderful quote. There are important lessons from every relationship and breakup, and the process of letting go is how we learn them.
- “Old times” never come back and I suppose it’s just as well. What comes back is a new morning every day in the year, and that’s better. “ It may be a little hackneyed to say it, but it is absolutely true that the sun will rise tomorrow. Even if you have a hard time today, there is always hope that the next day will bring you new joys.
- “My love lies bleeding.” This may be a little too poetic to understand, but the sentiment that your heart is wounded is beautifully phrased here.
- “The cure for anything is salt water – sweat, tears, or the sea.” This may be a little extreme advice, so don’t take the last part too seriously. But working through your anger and sorrow through hard work is actually good advice. A little focus on something outside of your relationship woes may be just the thing to snap you out of your funk.
- ” No one is spared the pain of rejection, except the ignorant and the fool. Which my ex just happens to be both of.” This bit of dark humor will hopefully put your relationship problems in proper perspective. An easy way to counter feeling like you caused your relationship to fail, is remembering how bad your partner really was.
- “To love and win is the best thing. To love and lose, the next best.” Don’t forget about the many blessings you receive just from exiting a failed relationship. You know what not to look for in your next prospect. And at least you experienced some temporary happiness.
- “A life with love will have some thorns, but a life without love will have no roses.” Don’t let a single broken romance keep you from loving again. Yes, the cost of love is often a broken heart, but there is so much happiness in between them, that you should continue to seek out those long moments of joy.
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