Are you asking yourself “will me and my ex get back together”…
That’s the question!
That’s the question that we can ask ourselves the moment our relationship ends. It cannot be denied that most people, who invested love and loyalty in a relationship, remain hopeful in bringing the love back after it ends. Allow me to correct myself at this declaration. Love never ends the moment relationship stops. It might vanish. But, it will certainly take time.
As compared to a deep cut, a broken heart takes time to be whole again. This realization is known to everybody. In this account, some might convince themselves that what happened is for the better. Some might attempt to be open to new love. More specifically, they date and fling for the hope of getting somebody else who can fill the spaces in their heart in pain. I am not telling that this isn’t a good notion. Of course, it is (for some).
But what’s the reality?
But to tell you frankly, there is a backfire in doing such. Never let others feel the same pain that you are fighting right now. Take a look at this. Faking the smile that you draw in your face whenever you’re with her is unfair. Letting her believe that you love her with all your heart is more throbbing on her part. Let me give you a friendly advice folks. If you are considering these things for your advantage, please halt. Bear in mind that a mistake can never be corrected with another wrong doing. You are just adding fire into a blazing inferno. I hope that that makes sense.
Everybody wants to be alone especially in this time of throbbing. Yet, being alone doesn’t mean to be getting involved in a two-day sobbing session. Yeah! That might be part of the healing process. Nobody can resist the tears from falling. However, this doesn’t mean hurting other people who never cause you any pain, on the first place. That’s foolish.
If you are trapped in this psychological predicament, all you need to do is plan. Spend some time weighing on things. Reflect on the question, “Does our relationship deserving for a second chance?”
More specifically, to know if it does, ask yourself. First, do we still love each other? Second, is she the one who makes me smile and laugh this way? Lastly, is she the one whom I want to spend the rest of my life with? If you happened to see yourself jumping into yes for an answer on these given queries, give it a shot.
Will me and my ex get back together? How?
Do you know there is nothing difficult in getting back with your past lover? Most of us think of bringing back the love in a very hard way. What’s the sense anyway? You never need to punish yourself with this wrong mode of thinking. There is nothing difficult with giving a broken relationship a second crack. Determination is the only thing you need.
Whether or not, you are the rejected one, as long as your past lover doesn’t date somebody the day after the break up (if she does, very disrespectful is she), you can make it! Claim it. The love is there. Space is the only thing that separates you from her. In cases that she demanded space to think about her feelings for you, you should be thankful. Why? Because, she is just doing you a favor. Thus, between the two of you, she got a braver heart to make your relationship grow fonder. You will certainly understand what I mean once you’re there.
Let’s get down to specifics.
Talk to your ex- girlfriend after cooling down. If she initiated the break up, she will certainly accept the invitation to meet you as a consolation. Have a very brief but fleshy closure. However, looking pitiful and miserable in front of her is never helpful. Act casually. Tell her that you will appreciate if she will maintain the distance between the two of you. But, assure her that the friendship is still there.
After doing so, motivate yourself not to invent reasons to communicate with her. A friendly “hi” and “hello” is a no-no. You are just making the situation worse if you do so. Erase all the contact information that you have for her. No email. No call. Rule is rule!
Thus, make yourself unavailable whenever she needs you. This way, she will realize your worth (without you asking for it). She will certainly call you for chitchat or something. You might ask me if it’s fine to say yes. Of course, it is. But for a little drama, politely decline and say that you have a very important matter to attend to. And that, you will be calling her for another schedule. Certainly, you will not do as promised. Let her call you again. That’s the perfect time to accept the invitation.
The bottom line is, just ride on. Let her dance with your music. This way, you are indirectly telling her that you are worth the fight. (wink)Do you want your ex back? Make sure you watch this video... Do NOT commit one of the 7 deadly mistakes or they might leave you for good... find out how to avoid it here: Click here to check out the video to get your ex back.