The fragile nature of relationship bonds makes them an ideal candidate for breakage. The amount of respect and nurturing invested in it determines the life it has for both parties. Each partner is expected to create a balance for the relationship to survive long. Absent this balance, issues and controversies may arise. This imbalance will soon wither out the relationship, where one decides to leave and one left with the option of resolution. Working on your own to resolve the conflict of the relationship is difficult, tasking and lonely, but as they say, there is hope even in the darkest hour so here it is, a to do list on how to make an ex girlfriend want you back.
Collecting your Strength to Face the Dawn of a New Chapter
Acts of desperation rarely helps in recovering an ex flame. These acts will draw away any ex partner to leaving you and believing that they made the right call. Being the needy partner in a relationship loses the essence of partnership. There should always be interplay of needing, giving and receiving. What you can do after a break up, is cry yourself and carry yourself with great determination that you can survive even during the hardest time of your life. Pouring your heart over a drink is normal but should be kept to a minimum. Your anger should be put to good use and your fuelling desire to lash out should be contained with grace. Do this and you will bring out a brave face amidst the storm. One that your ex girlfriend will more appreciate.
Initiate Minimal or No Contact at All
Break ups are periods of grief. Take the time to reassess and re-evaluate your priorities and goals. It is also the best time to reflect on what matters to you most. Do not abuse the privilege of calling your ex to express your grief. You should boldly accept the grief and process the same on your own. Avoiding contact with your ex will make it easier for you to come to terms to what happened. Choosing this option on the other hand will allow your girlfriend to assess her feelings and your situation with the ancillary benefit of seeing in you the confidence and maturity that a man should openly display in every relationship and to his partner.
Keep the Respect
This works both ways. Lambasting your ex with a list of demands and a list or their mistakes will hardly make them realize their mistakes. Rather, it will only be another reason for them to move forward and never look back at you. Avoid asking your ex to recover their stuff in your place or the things that she gave you. Just keep it there; there is no reason for you to throw back all the memories both of you created. And when I mean keep the respect, I mean keep your respect to her, yourself and to the relationship.
Overindulgence to grief is never healthy. Mourning the loss should be given a period. The reason is to accommodate recovery the soonest possible time. After processing the grief, you should take some time out of the pain hole and experience living again. If you have friends that you can comfortably hang out go. If you feel like you are not ready to talk about the relationship with others, and then use your time wisely. Go hit the gym and get that body in shape. Looking good is feeling good, and what better way of regaining control than to start controlling your life again with activities that boosts your character.
I am referring to the part where you get to acknowledge your role in the demise of your relationship. A little reflection and understanding of what went wrong will help you identify what you should avoid and what you should focus on in your relationship. List down how you ignited the romance with your ex and identify what she appreciated the most, what she did not like and what made things worse. Knowing what went wrong and how will give you a mind map of how things will be should you regain her affection. In doing this, be fair and true to yourself. Denying or avoiding an issue or an aspect of an issue will do you no good.
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